Learning this one phrase can be the thing that turns your whole world around. When things seem to go badly what do you do? What do you say? Ask yourself this question... What if it COULD be different? If you observe people who are successful and seem to live happy and fulfilled lives you may notice the way the speak about their circumstances and other people. Notice those who feel they are the watchman or woman of the universe and quick to point out the negative rather than share the positive attribure.
They typically see the glass half full rather than half empty! When it rains you may hear them talk about how fresh the air smells after a good rain. Or when it's hot day they say what a beautiful sunny day it is.
Powerful change occurs whenever people begin to decide to believe and talk in a positive way and think good and grateful thoughts rather than tell the same bad stories over and over again. We can't live in the past we must learn to live in the present and look and plan toward the future.
In my work with people and companies I often recommend people read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill If they haven't read it. This book is a great place to begin. There are practical steps we can take to turn our lives around and begin to create positive change in the outcomes in our lives. I recently had a good friend share a movie called The Secret... it is absolutley wonderful, I include the link here as a gift. There is no way to make money from this site those who may feel this is an ad I simply ask you if you knew something could change someones life for the better would you be excited t share it?
Problems in our lives, in companies and in families can all be traced back to beliefs, attitudes and actions. We can begin to change our actions and words by looking into our attitudes and core beliefs. What drives us to only look for the bad or suspect the motives of others. If we really want to effect change in our world we can spend that time looking into the mirror and hopefully we find someone we like, respect and draw others to us and attract things we are pleased with.
This is the Secret and a start to Living life by Design and Not Default
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