02/19/2008 22:02:21

Sounds like maybe she has learned from her past mistakes. I am happy for her and wish her well...

02/19/2008 13:25:46

Just so the rest of you know where I'm coming from-

Just about a year ago, she got involved with a boy she had met online maybe a month before. She threw herself into this relationship without knowing much about the boy. Long story short, he had a criminal record (theft) and had lied about himself. However, she "loved" him and wound up running off with him. For the next 7 months, I saw my daughter maybe 3 times. We did talk on the phone, but it still broke my heart, and I worried constantly. Finally, in November, I got a call from her asking me to come get her because she wanted to come home. She found out the hard way that he was no good.

So, yes. I am a bit worried, even though she is doing things differently this time. She is taking things much slower this time around. He seems kinder and more considerate, he doesn't "guilt" her the way the last one did, he doesn't have a problem with her having her own friends like the last one did, but what happened before is still in the back of my head.

02/19/2008 12:43:10

I am so glad I had a boy!!!

You never stop worrying but if you say anything to her you will drive her into the relationship faster.

We can only raise them the best way we know how, then just sit back and pray that everything will come out fine.

I see what your getting at. Seems a bit extreme to me that they are talking so much on the phone, that they both are jumping into something when they have only just met.

Kat

02/19/2008 07:43:10

chill out Mama, she'll be fine