Each experience in life is a lesson. It is these lessons that we learn that make us the unique person that we are. Whether we consider the experience good or bad, it is still a lesson and each lesson helps us grow. All things that live must grow, including man. A doctor spanks you upon birth, and before you can cry your indignity as this outrage, you have to take a breath. That is your first lesson on earth. You must learn to breathe. I'm sure you did not consider being born a pleasant experience, but it was a necessary lesson for you. As you grow you will have many experiences, good and bad, which are merely lessons in disguise. Each person who comes into your life has a lesson for you to learn. It may be to make you more loving, more tolerant, useful, dedicated, ambitious,joyful, appreciative,or even how to cope with things that you never thought you could. It may even be a lesson in learning to just slow down or hurry up.
People dont always come into your life to stay; they may only be there long enough to teach you the lesson that you need at that time. Even the death of a loved one teaches us that nothing is forever and perhaps that person had finished the lesson they had to teach you. Don't feel sad , lost or dejected; discover the lesson they came to teach you. We learn a lot of lessons we are unaware of. The majority of the we don't pay attention to. When as a result of our learning the lesson things turn out well, we say we are lucky. However, when things keep turning out bad we say..Why me? the answer to why me? is that you are not paying attention to the lesson you must learn. And the experiences will be repeated until you learn the lesson. Remember when you were in school, you could not move on to the next level until you had learned your lessons. Unpleasant people and experiences also teach lessons and avoidance of certain situations, learning to overcome nagativity and replacing it with positiveness, or how to cope with various situations that can tax you to the utmost. Even sickness can teach a lesson, giving you time to reevaluate yourself. All lessons are given to us that we may reach our full potential, the person we are supposed to be. Remember, each person and each event that comes into your life is a lesson for you to learn. But dont forget that you are also a lesson for whomever's life you touch.