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Sandy, that hostess was ignorant and rude.
Who was she to decide where you should eat and if you were able to handle getting up the stairs?
I guess the only thing I can say is consider the source and, Lord knows, if this lady only knew all that you have accomplished in your life, it would shame her to no end knowing that she had discounted your astounding abilities and strengths!!

It is HER loss...

Jess

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“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” - Dr. Seuss

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Sandy, I forgot to add about that waitress:

"Stupid is as stupid does."

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“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” - Dr. Seuss

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Well said Jessie, I don't think I can put it any better. Sandy, don't worry over people like her. She doesn't have a clue. What goes aroung comes around. Keep being your strong and wonderful self Sandy. People like that are not worth your time...

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The manager

The manager is ALWAYS there, they knew they did wrong!!!! Hope your daughter pursues this!!!!! I worked in restaurants for many years and they HAVE to be there. They know they did wrong!!!! Let me know what happens on this incident!!! Hugs, BARB Remember this also, The Better Buisness buruea, they definatlly dont want to hear that word!Q Good luck! Cant spell Burough, lol, but you will get results!!!

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Thank you all for all the comments and support , sorry I vented in here . The manager sent my daughter gift cards for 2 free dinners and apolized to us as well. I am glad there are more of their restraunts in our area and I will use it at one of those.

I can understand people being worn out at this time of the season and the place was crowed to the hilt and the hustle and bustle of getting everyone's food to them etc but just the way she acted it was like she never seen anyone in a chair before . I realize that some places are not wheelchair equipped or up to day and I watch out for those places when we go out . But the law was passed and they should be by now .

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas friends

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Thanks Rae and Rick for your kind words but I have put it in the past now . I know what you mean Rae about handicap parking , i have often left messages on windshields lol when we have to park at the end of the lot and yes i know about zanaxx . Everything is okay now . just had to vent and i did and its out of my system and I want to forget about it .

thanks again friends .

Hope you all had a great Christmas day
hugs to both of you

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starrylane wrote: Yes....we got a few messages left on our windshield too. I learned from those experiences to never judge anyone without knowing all the facts. People may not look handicapped, but they surely could be. Glad to know it's all behind you now.

Thanks Rae but the main ones I ever put a note on was police car lol but its very true you can't always tell what someone's handicap is by just looking on the outside of them. That is why I never judge anyone . Till you walk in someone else's shoes or been in their postion you really dont know nothing about them. That is why I don't like being judege either . Get to know me , I a pretty nice person.Thanks also for sharing with me like you have G/f and that you will always be to me Rae.

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Grrrrrrrrrrr!

It is a good thing I do not live close to you right now as I would have to be in their faces and when I first read your post I wanted to punch her lights out!

What can I say, you are so wonderful and so accomplished in all you do and you know it and we know it so damn - I'm at a loss for words, LoL. I think Ms. Jessie said it best, "stupid is as stupid does" and that's it. I'm glad you got it out of your system however and don't let me see you saying "I'm sorry" woman! That is why we are here and why we have this group. You vent, scream, yell, or curse and it's just totally ok, and this goes for anyone on Boomer. Jess and I have a favorite word which is "Ratbastard" and hunny, you ran into a nest of them!!!
If I ever get to come see you, since my knees are awfull right now, I might be on a scotter so you know I WILL want to visit them again.....LMAO! Whoooo Hoooooo!
Love you,
Debbie

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writterdeb wrote: It is a good thing I do not live close to you right now as I would have to be in their faces and when I first read your post I wanted to punch her lights out! What can I say, you are so wonderful and so accomplished in all you do and you know it and we know it so damn - I'm at a loss for words, LoL. I think Ms. Jessie said it best, "stupid is as stupid does" and that's it. I'm glad you got it out of your system however and don't let me see you saying "I'm sorry" woman! That is why we are here and why we have this group. You vent, scream, yell, or curse and it's just totally ok, and this goes for anyone on Boomer. Jess and I have a favorite word which is "Ratbastard" and hunny, you ran into a nest of them!!! If I ever get to come see you, since my knees are awfull right now, I might be on a scotter so you know I WILL want to visit them again.....LMAO! Whoooo Hoooooo! Love you, Debbie

I LIKE THAAT WORD YOU USE DEBBIE AND JESSIE TOO I WILL HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT ONE LOL "RATBASTARD " ITS GOOD AND I AM SO GLAD I CAN VENT IN HERE AND I HAVE U ALL TO VENT TOO , YOU LADIES ARE THE BEST . C'MERE DEBBIE AND WE WILL GO AND ROCK THEIR WORLD
THANKS FOR BEING YOU LOVE YA

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