It's Natural.....

When one finds themselves in a messy divorce it take some time to pick yourself up and move again. For some they never do. That is the part that saddens and frightens me the most. I'm not positive what I would do. My husband and I separated for a short time and I loved it, LOL. I did not answer to anyone and I ate, slept, and did what I wanted when I wanted and the selfish side of me was happy as a clam. Then came the big bad stuff. Mother dying, daughter in law dying, husband wanting to please come back home, and then, into the hospital with my butt. Had a bad surgery and they lost me on the table twice. I am very grateful to be here. At this time my husband came back home, I learned some very needed lessons and now, hey, I'm older, I have better insurance and I found it's ok to be me and my husband loves me for it - well - most of the time, LOL. Life's lessons can either break us and we stay broke or break us and we regroup. I truly am not making light of your situation just trying in a small post to tell you, there is hope, life, and friends after divorce and hardship. Just let them in.
You are in my prayers,
Debbie

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Just a thought.......

Skills

As I start to do an employment search I find that most require computer skills. I have none required. I really have been trying to figure out how I may gain them. I hope a job would teach me but I don't think that may be realistic. Until I can gain them I hope to be able to do some job. I will try community colleges and Mary if you could find out where the free ones are I would appreciate it. I have heard the Goodwill does a bit. I forgot about that. There are also tutorials on the net like Microsoft. Now that I can concentrate since being put back on my ADD meds maybe I can work thru some of them

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life and it's finer points

On Lonliness

I am a woman who has been left by her husband. That was 5 years ago. I lost all my friends due to the trauma over the breakup. It's just not the same being single with married friends. So here I am middle age, alone and lonely. I wish I had more skills. I am so bored. Is this all there is in life. I may sound depressed and maybe I am. Mostly I just need some friends. I have recently gained weight alot of weight d/t an extended illness. I have low self esteem now. I just need human contact. Its the medicine medicine can't offer!

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life and it's finer points