i know that menopause is different for each person some may get nightasweats and some may get hotflashes or some may get all of it at once and some may even get depression and some may get everything together and it is a 20 yr process im 42 i have yet to experience it for my self i did alot of reading up on it and im trying to be prepared myself and i have asked my friends that have been through it i figure i have a couple of more years or so before i start going through it myself im kind of scared because i did some research and digging so i know what i could be about to go through but like i said it is differwent for each person nobody really knows what they will go through until they experience it for themselves