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“the soul of the matter”

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"how we feed our soul
through these matters of the heart
our minds pursuing destinations
striving through emotional chaos and adversity
reaching for pleasures to nurse our desires
and the ugly souls walk without contentions
or the consciousness of sordid consequences
while the heavy burdens of tenderness float adrift
above the thoughts of logic masquerading around ideas
with the impressions of perfections imperfection
and the unacceptable acceptances giving and taking
receiving and burning further into the life breadths of possessions
this presence of who we really are, or all that we are meant to be
while we still have this seed planted inside which never grows
to the circumferences of all that we may have wanted to really be
populating along the days and the hours of uncertainty
claiming to be certain in monumental moments of living
with all ill-decadent daily and ritualistically shaped aspirations
divided and united singing glory hailing our sorrows, our salvations...


we stand and we kneel with undeciphering consequences
laughing and crying into new births and fading deaths
knowing how we pray and we curse admittedly
the unifications of segregations and the tolerances of indifferences
and the fields to knowledge remain an endless harvest for fairness and fruits
where no amount of science can ever justify the true depths of endlessness
as the black hole swallows us all into the truth of our nothingness
and the factuals about our purpose which remains in meaning
without justifiable actuality as we stand taller and build intelligence
further from the sources merely invisible if we see past the spheres
scoping rising and shooting aggressions across the universe of eternity
outlining cosmic perfections where we really are just matters of our own hearts
as we are compensate to nothingness of those hidden barriers
to divine spirituality or even those underworlds of the evil sinners
cursing infections with diseased scalpels
wanting to believe we are superior life intelligences of a race
above and beyond something more than what we are
in the schemes of life…making due and filling up spaces
on this borrowed energy which has never belonged to us
and it never will…."

poetress V. McColley


“be free”

The wind whips through my mane like cold fire.
I gallop across the earth with nothing in my mind but freedom.
I am free and I am wild.
I cannot be tamed.
My breath is beginning to get shallow
I’ve been running for so long.
My pace is still the same
The solid rhythm turns to hollow thuds.
I leap over the brush to escape
The beast is after me.

I was born here and I know the land well
I can out run any predator without misplacing a step,
but this time is different and change makes my heart skip a beat.
This beast is mounted on a brother and is coming fast.
I slowly start to here an echoing to my foot steps.
My muscles strain and my lungs gasp for breath.
I make one last attempt.
Suddenly I have new found strength and I surge ahead.
I turn and weave and follow secret paths,
Until I am out of breath, out of site.
A shudder racks my body as I walk towards a pool of water
I drink deeply and when I’m satisfied, I face my fears.
That was close.
I have known life this way all along.
I cannot bear to think of what my life would be like without running free.
~ author unknown


... how you climb up the mountain is just as important as how you get down the mountain ... and so it is with life, which for many of us becomes one big gigantic test followed by one big gigantic lesson ... in the end it all comes down to one word ...
*grace* ...
its how you accept winning and losing,

good luck and bad luck,

the darkness and the light...


When it comes to fantasies ...
I am just a bit embarrassed to admit
that I fantasize about
kissing most often.
Remembered kisses, missed kisses, anticipated kisses.
Oh, I imagine other things too ~
But mostly, it is all about the kiss...

What do you fantasize about?

“Some people feel the rain. Others just get wet.”


 Who coined this quote...Bob Marley? Bob Dylan? Might they have been talking about a Pisces woman? hahaha! In any event, here's a little about my personality.

Pisces, the twelfth sign of the zodiac, is a mutable water sign ruled by the planet of luck, Jupiter, and the planet of mystery, Neptune. Pisces women oscillate between two worlds - fantasy and reality, unconscious and conscious, optimist and pessimist. These complex beauties of the deep live life through their feeling senses, and are known to be dreamy, feminine, passionate, romantic and mysterious.

Pisces’ mutable nature allows these mermaids of the zodiac to weave their way through life in a fluid, flexible manner. They have a strong dislike for aggression and discord of any kind, and stressful environments cause them a great deal of inner anxiety. This is due to their deep sensitivity and awareness of their external environment. Due to their empathetic nature, Pisces women pick up on the moods and feelings of those around them, whether they are aware of it or not. They don’t like to make waves, and would rather keep their conflicts to themselves than stir up trouble, even if it means making themselves a martyr in the process.

Their Neptunian nature makes them great investigators of the mysteries of life, human nature, and spirituality. Some of the most deep and penetrating women in the zodiac, they rely on their intuition and psychic abilities to absorb information, and can sense other people’s true natures and agendas with laser precision. Pisces women have the uncanny ability to notice undercurrents of life, and store sensory information, patterns, and emotional responses in their vast memory bank to use at a later date. They also have a vivid and rich inner-life, filled with dreams, fantasies and grand ideas, which may be difficult for more rational zodiac signs to understand. Therefore, a Pisces woman is very choosy with whom she shares her innermost thoughts and dreams with. She would rather keep to herself than risk being hurt, judged or misunderstood. She guards her passions close to her heart, yet is always seeking new avenues to express them.

Pisces women can easily put themselves in other people’s shoes, allowing them to be remarkably understanding, compassionate and caring. They make great listeners, and truly care about other people, which makes them a great friend or romantic partner to have. Despite their soft hearts and wistful thoughts, Pisces women have great depths of strength that often go unnoticed by others.

If a Pisces woman had it her way, the world would be filled with beauty, romance, unconditional love and harmony. Unfortunately, things don’t always turn out that way, which can cause her to retreat into an emotional cave when the going gets tough. However, this is the Pisces woman’s defense mechanism, and living with rose-colored glasses is sometimes easier than accepting the harsh realities of life. Pisces are the romantics, the dreamers, the artists and the healers of the zodiac. The beloved Pisces women of the world bring us amazing works of art, show us compassion and love, and inspire us with their dreams for a better life.

Yes, I really do want to move to Portland. Oregon, yes.


The 'Happy Any Hour Lounge' appears to be experiencing some technical difficulties ... as far as music though I love many genres, instrumentals, classical, a little bit of everything except hard rap stuff, and I am not a big country music fan either .. but to each his own. Feel free to visit my group, "Beautifully Yours" for music, join in a chat, and "Won't You Take Me To..." edition and dance postings. I have been known to tickle the ivories on occasion.

in my headset currently...Richard Elliott

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Music is my shelter and escape from the trials of this life
shows me rainbows of color when I am blue
wakes me up when I am tired
brings me consolation and communion when I am alone
it is inspirational,
lights fires in me
washes over me
breathes life into me
invokes my imagination
embraces me with no hesitation
it guides me to the world of spirit
to the quintessence of soul
a touchstone for the power of life
a beautiful thing that I never tire of
a lover that will never grow old...

"my creative writing corner"

"Once upon a moonlit night
I prayed to you with all my might
To hold me close and squeeze me tight

As this would bring me such delight
To hold you near or touch your hand

I wish for you to understand
This affection I have for you
was never planned
Your every naughty wish
is my command..."

Inside the mind of one in the rain
Brings quiet ... peace...
As more and more raindrops
Land on her warm skin ~
With arms outstretched
She embraces the rain
Over her head
Out her flowing branches
Stemming nipples ... standing firm
Eyes watering in the cool rain ~
Rivers forming ... streaming down her body
Freely soaking her clothes
Now hugging her warm body
Downward is the intent ~ down to the soul ~
Reviving her weariness
Igniting her passion
Watering, drowning
Chattering teeth
Shudders quaking in rhythm
First a murmur,
Pulsating to a shrill
Then followed by silent soothing release.
Inside again, soaking in a warm scented bath
Her shivering slightly still
Fully relaxed, totally comforted
This water though, unlike the
rain – hugs, holds, and embraces
Soaking in the heat, breathing steady,
shivers subsiding.

“the guru in me ~ inspirational pics, quotes...etc.”

"Trust yourself to experience the experience that arrives at your door— knowing you never receive more than you can handle, or different than you expect. It is all about awareness." —Guru Singh


ever wonder if you had any spiritual power?  well, you can find out...by taking this little quiz.

Your spiritual power is: Love
You are a true lover and an ambassador of love. You spirit and persona can allure and absorb anyone. You are so real and raw that your imperfections make you even more lovable.

The Bluebird Patch Photo Of The Day: Gentle Small Hands
"Gentleness floats with the softness of a sheet onto a harsh world."

Wisdom ceases to be wisdom when it becomes too proud to weep, too grave to laugh, and too selfish to seek other than itself. Kahlil Gibran via: The Sacred Journey Of The Soul
Wisdom ceases to be wisdom when it becomes too proud to weep, too grave to laugh, and too selfish to seek other than itself. Kahlil Gibran via: The Sacred Journey Of The Soul

.“What would you do if I kissed you right now?
“What would you do if I kissed you right now?" I stared at his beautiful face and his beautiful mouth and I wanted nothing more than to taste it. "I would kiss you back.”

a letter to my future lover~

"its funny to think that we're strangers
and you're sitting in some other room
in some other place
maybe even in some another country
thinking about things that
won't even cross my mind...

its funny to think that you're out there
dreaming, and loving, and wishing
upon the same stars~
that I look up at when night falls
like a veil over the horizon.

it's funny to think that someday
you will love me
but today
you have no idea
whom I truly am.

p.s. and when the time comes, I will love you too!"

Scarlett Johansson (1984) - American actress, model and singer. Photo by Paolo Roversi
Scarlett Johansson (1984) - American actress, model and singer. Photo by Paolo Roversi 

If I must choose, I would have kindness over intellect; give me a heart that loves, over a mind that thinks --TB Laberge

“Let your life lightly dance on the edges of time like dew on the tip of a leaf.” ― Rabindranath Tagore

When you stare into my eyes like this.. it makes me feel we are the only two people in the world.
"He was staring at me, his eyes were crinkling. "I'm in love with you, and I'm not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasure of saying true things. I'm in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we're all doomed and that there will come a day when all our labor has been returned to dust, and I know the sun will swallow the only earth we'll ever have, and I am in love with you.” ― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

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“I’m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, am out of control and at times, hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” ~ Marilyn Monroe

"Somewhere someone is thinking of you. Someone is calling you an angel. Someone is making you into a vision so beautiful that it can only live in the mind. Someone is thinking of the way your breath escapes your lips when you are touched. How your eyes close and your jaw tightens with concentration as you give pleasure a home. These thoughts are saving a life somewhere right now...someone is calling out to you silently and you are answering without even being there."

...listen to the mighty voice of violent oceans’ waves dancing in the wind  a droplet of tear caresses her face intimacy enticing my envy, permit me and I will drink of your provision  rise with the morning’s light share thy life with those brave enough to toss mundane unsatisfying pleasures  extended hands clasp embracing love in her purest form...
Orchid, wind dancer colors radiating beauty without apology stealing the eyes of love; graceful spirit moved by hands unseen shifting in time, between time, defying time beauty unmatched; age she does not know. Silent bellows infuse my open spaces ~ listen to the mighty voice of violent oceans’ waves dancing in the wind, a droplet of tear caresses her face, intimacy enticing my envy. Permit me and I will drink of your provision rise with the morning’s light, share thy life with those brave enough to toss mundane unsatisfying pleasures. Extended hands clasp, embracing love in her purest form; shed your tears and old burdens are no more. The graceful flight of silent leaves racing to kiss silent ground, dare you embrace this time in time dare. You smile, Orchid, wind dancer ~ colors radiating beauty without apology, stealing the eyes of love. There she sat in the splendor of her beauty, a thousand stars fade in your smile; a thousand lives spared. Heal these broken bones with only your touch, heal this broken soul with thy divine embrace. Dance evermore to this song looping within, the song of the wind, composed by the soul unknown. You enthralled me, you enthralled me graceful spirit dancing in the wind shifting in time, between time, defying time beauty unmatched, age she does not know break the rainbow separate her colors one from the other tell me, is this possible? break this bond, this love, this imperfect love perfectly given tell me, is this possible? tainted is all that I touch but in the palms of my soul you alone remain perfect. You are my Orchid silently serenading my soul with every sway ~ my Orchid, dancing in the wind to everything the heart desired, to say my Orchid, beautifully gracefully dancing with my soul my Orchid, dancing in my love...~ Ibhubesi The Great

Chasing the Light

Chasing the light . . .

I surely must be gone this world
such beauty in tangled swirls
no sound, only motion prevalent
a measure of when I lived and when I died
a record, a documentation that defines
what is the meaning, is this the promise, my lifeline
if this is all that is, I refuse to ponder, that which is in remiss
maybe if I grab the end of one, I may follow to the beginning
this lifeline a twisted, mangled mess
displayed as testament of guilt
may it be straighten, untangled, as a guide to new life
or, is this indeed, the entangled mess of my life in death
~ M. McGovern

As you get older you will understand more & more that its not about what you look like, or what you own, its all about the person you have become.

Your hands are two personal valets
that wait on you with absolute commitment.
They perform all of your mundane tasks with
tender care. Tying shoes, buttoning shirts, brushing your teeth, and
fixing your hair. Fluffing, patting, retrieving, holding, scratching,
feeding, and soothing. Before you even know what you want, they spring
into action. Your wish is their command.

“There were days when she was very
happy without knowing why. She was happy to be alive and breathing,
when her whole being seemed to be one with the sunlight, the color,
the odors, the luxuriant warmth of some perfect Southern day. She
liked then to wander alone into strange and unfamiliar places. She
discovered many a sunny, sleepy corner, fashioned to dream in. And
she found it good to dream and to be alone…”

~ Kate Chopin, The Awakening 

"Thank God every morning when you get up that you have something to do that day which must be done, whether you like it or not. Being forced to work, and forced to do your best, will breed in your temperance and self-control, diligence and strength of will, cheerfulness and content, and a hundred virtues which the idle never know." ~ Charles Kingsley (June 1819 – January 1875)

choose happy! and remember that being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect, it simply means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections!

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Thanks for gracing my page.

I'm a Pisces ... grateful for the little things life has to offer. A lover of jazz, rock, funk, blues, classical and a good cup of coffee!

❥ currently looking for a love ... having raised 3 ~ I would so love to find a love again ... one that "The Boss" sings of ~ If I Should Fall Behind ~ its such a beautiful, poignant expression of life's deepest longings and needs ~ to find that partner, that friend, that someone who will make this pact with us ~ sincerely, authentically, and keep true to one another throughout that journey.

I am not much of a spirits drinker, but I do enjoy a glass of wine or a mixed drink occasionally. My hobbies include collecting dust (I need a housekeeper...LOL), horizontal therapy, net surfing, listening to music...Activities at any given time could include moi lounging in my jammies, at my computer, trying to keep from choking one of my crew, dodging bullets from unhappy clients and upper class management, and avoiding family drama if at all possible!

What does moi for a living? I work as a slave being a quality analyst ... Yes, I keep hoping that my knight in shining armor will rescue me, but so much for believing in fairy tales ... pfffffffftt! Maybe he's waiting for me at the nursing home! ha!

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“Age has no reality except in the physical world. The essence of a human being is resistant to the passage of time. Our inner lives are eternal, which is to say that our spirits remain as youthful and vigorous as when we were in full bloom. Think of love as a state of grace, not the means to anything, but the alpha and omega. An end in itself.” --Gabriel García Márquez

...however, my day does not begin until after coffee ~!

“home sweet home”

I was born and raised in Kentucky, and have lived here all my life pretty much. Home is where the heart is, where our family has taken root...

wherever you hail from, remember this simple principle...
Vale Wood Farms Sunflower Bloom where you are planted by brandonhirtphoto on Etsy

...and when things seem to be falling apart

"Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together." - Elizabeth Taylor

“on the subject of art and beauty”

Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical. ~ Sophia Loren.

"Everything you see I owe to spaghetti! ~ Sophia Loren.

I love gr8 art works ... this one my fav at the Metropolitan Museum of Art ... this painting is beautiful when you see it in person, OMG! :), also I like interesting and unique photography; my tastes in decorating are eclectic vintage meets modern contemporary! Don't know what that is? me either...but I know it when I see it and I have to have it! I'd love to travel so sponsor me already!

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Beauty does not linger, it only visits; yet beauty's visitation affects us and invites us into its rhythm, it calls us to feel, think, and act beautifully in the world: to create and live a life that awakens the beautiful.

and speaking of beautiful,

its a ghost orchid, have you ever seen anything more exquisite?

"Don't overlook an orchid while searching for a rose."

A Rose in Winter

A crimson bloom in winter's snow
Born out of time, like a maiden's woe,
Spawned in a season when the chill winds blow.

'Twas found in a sheltered spot,
Bright sterling gules and blemished not,
Red as a drop o' blood from the broken heart.

Of the maiden who waits and weeps atop the tor,
Left behind by yon ardent knight sworn to war,
'Til ajousting and aquesting he goes no more.

Fear not, Sweet Jo, amoulderin' on the moor.
The winter's rose doth promise in the fading runes of yore,
That true love once found will again be restored.

-Kathleen E. Woodiwiss from "A Rose In Winter" Copyright 1982

“what turns moi on?”

oh yeah...mmmmmm!

#Gentlemen's guide #quote   Being a gentleman never goes out if fashion

My ideal guy is a true gentleman, a class act, with a gr8 sense of humor, one who can carry an intelligent conversation, be strong, compassionate, and gentle when needed, and defnitely a gr8 kisser!

“I can still taste you. I try to write with your taste in my mouth.” - Count Laszlo de Almásy, The English Patient.
I can still taste you. I try to write with your taste in my mouth.” - Count Laszlo de Almásy, The English Patient."

Lantern Walkway, Thailand

Lantern Walkway, Thailand

... hot relaxing baths with wine & candlelight (I don't mind company!), seaside drives (never been on highway 1 in California, always wanted to go!)

Nice long exposure shot.  Much more interesting than the over-photographed waterfall in Big Sur.

finding a gr8 sale on stuff I need (OMG shoes!), and a soft place to land at the end of the day, preferably in the arms of love, but my bed a blankie and everyready steady will have to do until love comes knockin'...shall I ramble on? oh yes, let's not forget a room with a view!

How to plan a tablescape that gives you the feeling of a romantic vacation.

or maybe two, one of a cityscape the other a seascape!

Think I'm goin' to Croatia!!
For dinner and for the beautiful views!
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and of course a good masseus on standby to help soothe my overworkedness (is that a word?)!

also fun is someone whose a little spontaneous, reckless, and a little bold, who challenges me, surprises me ... someone whose not afraid to rattle the pots and pans; I want someone to build me a treehouse, and it would be nice to have a beautiful outdoor garden space with ambient lighting, or maybe even a hammock meant for two!

“You are so very beautiful to me.
The passion I feel for you is beyond words.
If love has a color, then color me love.

"You make the artist in me come alive
and you inspire my thoughts.
You cause the ache of desire to burn me
with longing for your touch, and
you make me feel like the woman that is truly me.
You spark my imagination
and set free the child in me.
You let me express myself in words
and feelings
and allow my heart to love you…."


Nothing turns me off more than a man who wears too much jewelry or too much cologne, grease-monkey hands and a greasy mind, douchebags, drama queens, liars, thieves, braggarts, attention whores, people who can't spell or use grammar appropriately (there's a thing called spellchecker, use it!), stupidity, shallow-minded and/or mean-spirited people, organ eaters and booger pickers! I think that about covers it for now. Except for people who have more baggage than American Tourister! ha!

“the comedy corner"

hi there. being a Quality Analyst for a medical transcription company doesn't have too many perks except an occasional ROFLMAO at some typos or Speech Recognition boo-boos I find on nearly a daily basis...

...The patient has a pet grandog named Porky... dictated as "groundhog" hahaha!

...The patient is allergic to poison IV. hahaha!

..."The patient reports she can barely hold onto her steering will."

..."The patient works as a valley parker at The Cancer Center." (you mean valet?)

When patient was asked who Marie Curie was, "I think she's a famous hooker!"

...The patient had a creme-filled filter placed! (should have been a Greenfield filter, done for clots, circulation issues).

...Exam of genitalia reveals that he is circus sized. (I don't care who ya are, that's funny!)

...While in the emergency room, she was examined, X-rated and sent home.

...Rectal exam revealed a normal size thyroid.

...When she fainted, her eyes rolled around the room.

...Discharge status: Alive but without permission.

..."She is recovering attic and alcoholic."

..."her husband is an insurance jester!" (gives a whole new meaning don't you think?)

..."the patient went to "alimentary school" ? hahaha!

..."The client was dressed in genes and a T-shirt..."

well wouldn't it?

"spreadin' the love"

it all starts so innocently, then one drink leads to another..

its grateful sex, which is better than no sex at all!

does it matter?!

more than just perky!

*gasp!* me either!

esp. with chocolate syrup!

Size matters; oh yes it does!

ooh! kinky geek sex!

haha! batteries required 

thanks for stopping by! I'll return the favor by creepin' over to your page!

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