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01/28/2024 17:42:55


**AND HAVE A GOOD WEEK**MY DEAR FRIEND**


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01/26/2024 08:07:17
Good Morning Beautiful Soul x



SUCCESS COMES IN MANY DISGUISES
Somebody asked me recently what do I think about the people out there who are seen as failures by their peers. (The definition of failure can be different from one person to another). I know that there are people who are being very patient while working on themselves, or an important project that hopefully will result in them achieving their dreams. They do this silently and diligently. They may appear to be failing but, they the are far from failing and diligently working towards their goal.    
 
Beware of judging others. Because  you never how things will turn out. I have seen this happen so many times. May I leave you with this, “Nothing" in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan “press on” has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race ” Calvin Coolidge.
 
Blessings and Love... Carol Anne..


01/25/2024 17:43:25


**FRIDAY & WEEKEND BLESSINGS**DEAR FRIEND**


01/24/2024 17:37:06


**THURSDAY HUGS TO YOU**


01/23/2024 17:23:42


<**WEDNESDAY BLESSINGS**


01/22/2024 17:51:03


**TUESDAY HUGS TO YOU**


01/22/2024 02:09:21


**AND NEW WEEK BLESSINGS**


01/20/2024 13:07:32




01/20/2024 10:48:52


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ENJOY WEEKEND



01/20/2024 08:53:47




This week, the angels talk about how our vibration can shift our relationships and how it isn't cheating, spiritually speaking, to look for the kindest path. I'll share stories and tips as always to help you give yourself permission to take the easier path to love!


Have a blessed & beautiful week 









Photo of the Week


Photo of the week

by Ann Albers in Northern AZ





It isn't "cheating" spiritually to look for the easiest path!













Message from the Angels


Messages from the Angels



My dear friends, we love you so very much,

Never are you alone, nor are you ever guided into difficult situations by the Divine. You are never being tested, nor do you need to "reach" for your enlightenment. You are simply vibrating and attracting, vibrating and attracting. You are all seeking to be the loving beings that you truly are, and the more you align with love, the more you will attract easier, kinder, and more pleasing realities.

If you find yourself in the midst of a challenge, it doesn't necessarily mean you are in a low vibration right now. You may have positioned yourself in the place and situation you are in when you were in a different vibration. If the situation around you no longer matches the vibration you are in now, things will change. This is just how the universe works.

For example, suppose you are flying high right now and shocked to find a long-term friendship suddenly falling apart. It doesn't mean you are vibrating at a low level. It might mean that you are at a higher vibration now and are no longer a match for one another. Suppose you met your friend during a very difficult time in life. The two of you commiserated together, drank together, or complained together. Or perhaps your friend tried to rescue you out of a need to be needed. We have no judgments about any of these things. They are often steps to soothing yourself along a path towards better.

Suppose, however, that over the years, you grow. You become more empowered, happier, and less judgmental. You no longer need anyone to rescue you. When you get together, you are eager to share the good news while your friend is still in a space of worry, complaints, or other habits you've outgrown. Or perhaps they're still trying to find something to fix when you no longer need fixing. Even at a 3D level, you can see that the gap between you has grown. If it is large enough, then sooner or later, you will have to lower your vibration, or they will have to raise theirs if you wish to meet in the 3D vibrational space. If the gap becomes large enough, the laws of the universe will find a way to move you apart.

This is not cruel, dear ones. It is simply the way the universe works. When you are not "on the same wavelength," it is difficult to connect. Nonetheless, you can always connect in the vibrational frequency of love. Choosing to love someone who is being difficult is a choice to connect with them at the deepest level. When you love, you connect with your deepest self. You connect with your soul. You connect with something deeper in the other than they are currently demonstrating.

If the relationship no longer matters to you, move on to easier ones. However, if the gap has formed between your spouse and your child, you may want to meet at a deeper level. You may want to consciously look at all there is to love about them so as to maintain a connection and even provide an opportunity for their upliftment.

Consider the example of the friendship above. Suppose this friend really mattered to you. You could choose to love them as is. You could choose to love yourself by simply beaming compassion and love to them as they complained. In love, you are aligned with you. In love, you can't take on anyone's density. As you flow love and good feelings, you make no room to resonate with unloving words and bad feelings.

Again, this is a choice, and we have no judgment about your choices. You must, dear ones, learn to accept others as they are if you choose to be around them, or you will drive yourselves crazy. The soul accepts everyone as they are because the soul sees the light and truth within them. The soul sees every being reaching for more, no matter how unevolved or unloving their behavior. You can see the light within and still move on. You can choose to love as your soul does while loving your human self enough to do what is kindest for you.

You are not "holier" if you stay in a relationship that no longer resonates with you. You do, however, have the capacity to be in any relationship that you choose if you can find agreement with your own spirit. If you can be in a space of love and compassion, aligned with your soul, you can be in any relationship and still be happy. This does not guarantee the other will behave or even stay, but it does mean that you will feel good no matter what. A funny thing happens, too, in such cases. When people feel true unconditional love—the love that bears witness to their goodness, their caring heart, their talent, and the light hidden beneath their upset, anger, frustration, fear, and pain—they often "step up" and show you better. Again, there are no guarantees about the other's behavior, but when you are aligned with your loving spirit within, you feel good.

Dear ones, you get to choose where to place yourself on this earth and who to be around, and you get to choose how you show up vibrationally in each situation.

Where you are in 3D today, dear ones, is simply the result of all the choices along your path. How you vibrate now in 5D determines how you will experience your present moment regardless of how you got there.

So, if you like your present situation, enjoy it, love it, appreciate it, and thus more will flow.

If you don't like your present situation, change it, or change you. Move to a more loving situation or shift to a more loving vibration. Shift your physical reality or shift your focus. As you make these choices, you continue to create a reality with greater and greater love, which, in turn, will always attract better.

In the ideal world, you'd practice a loving vibration so thoroughly that you could "turn it on" anywhere or with anyone. As a result, you'd be able to coax the love out of any situation and constantly attract better.

No one in heavens expects this of you, but we encourage you to constantly practice choosing situations, things, and, above all, thoughts that feel better. We want only the best for you, and however you find the vibration of love—internally or externally—you become closer to allowing yourself an experience of heaven on earth.

God Bless You! We love you so very much.
-- The Angels





LOVE AND BLESSINGS                                                              ​








YOU DON'T HAVE TO KNOW WHAT'S NEXT.

Stop overthinking, and start being in the moment. There's no rush to have your life figured out today. Baby





steps are still steps, and they're helping you along the way. Please don't forget that. Alex Elle



01/19/2024 18:11:06


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01/18/2024 17:37:38


<**HAVE A GOOD & BLESS WEEKEND**<


01/18/2024 06:29:32

Good morning my friend. Have nice day 







01/17/2024 17:44:52


**THURSDAY HUGS AS EVER**<



01/16/2024 17:34:44


**BLESSINGS FOR YOUR WEDNESDAY**DEAR FRIEND**


01/15/2024 17:33:31




01/14/2024 20:21:08

Have a good night ... wherever you are




01/14/2024 17:15:24


**AND**BLESSINGS FOR MONDAY**


01/13/2024 08:53:17

GOOD MORNING














20 Things My 90-Year-Old Grandma Told Me to Stop Worrying About










Some people wait all day for 5pm, all week for Friday, all year for the holidays, all their lives for happiness. Don’t be one of them. Don’t wait until your life is almost over to realize how good it has been. The secret to happiness and peace on the average day is letting this moment be what it is, instead of what you think it should be, and then making the very best of it.


Go ahead and sing out loud in the car with the windows down, and dance in your living room, and stay up late laughing, and paint your walls any color you want, and enjoy some sweet wine and chocolate cake. Yes, and go ahead and sleep in on clean white sheets, and throw parties, and paint, and write poetry, and read books so good they make you lose track of time. And just keep living and making God glad that he gave life to someone who loves and cherishes the gift…



  • Think deeply.

  • Speak gently.

  • Love lots.

  • Laugh often.

  • Work hard.

  • Give back.

  • Expect less.

  • Be present.

  • Be kind.

  • Be honest.

  • Be true to yourself…


And whatever you do, don’t let the wrong things worry you for too long!


Read that bolded line above again. It’s one of the core lessons my grandma shared with me and reminded me of frequently in the final few years before she died in 2008. She did so because she loved me, and because, at 90-years-old, she had lived long enough to know that most of us let the little frustrations, drama, and distractions of each day blind us to the beauty in front of us.


We get caught up in our own heads, and literally don’t know our lives to be any better than the few things that aren’t going our way. Other times we talk a big talk about a lot of stuff that really doesn’t matter that much. We scrutinize and dramatize the insignificant until we’re blue in the face, and then we sit back and scratch our heads in bewilderment of how unfulfilling life feels.


But the older we grow, the quieter we become and the less pointless drama and chaos we engage in. Life humbles us gradually as we age. We realize how much nonsense we’ve wasted time on.


Truth be told, the afternoon always understands what the morning never even suspected.


Here are some things I learned from my grandma’s wisdom, that I have also gradually validated for myself over the past couple decades — things we all tend to focus on and worry about when we’re younger, that we eventually realize matter a lot less than we originally thought:


1. The inevitable frustrations of an average day.


99% of what’s stressing you out today won’t matter a month from now. Sooner or later you will know this for certain. So just do your best to let go of the nonsense, stay positive, and move forward with your life.


2. The little failures you often feel self-conscious about.


When you set goals and take calculated risks in life, you eventually learn that there will be times when you succeed and there will be times when you fail, and both are equally important in the long run. We learn the way on the way.


3. How “perfect” everything could be, or should be.


Understanding the difference between reasonable striving and perfectionism is critical to letting go of fantasies and picking up your life. Perfectionism not only causes you unnecessary stress and anxiety from the superficial need to always “get it right,” it actually prevents you from getting anything worthwhile done at all.


4. Having complete confidence before taking the first step.


Confidence is that inner inertia that propels us to bypass our empty fears and self-doubts. On the road of life, we come to realize that we rarely have confidence when we begin anew, but as we move forward and tap into our inner and outer resources, our confidence gradually builds. A common mistake many young people make is wanting to feel confident before they start something, whether it’s a new job, a new relationship, living in a new city, etc. But it doesn’t happen like that. You have to step out of your comfort zone, and risk your pride, to earn the reward of finding your confidence.


5. The intricacies of what’s in it for you.


Time teaches us that we keep almost nothing in this life until we first give it away. This is true of knowledge, forgiveness, service, love, tolerance, acceptance, and so forth. Most of the time you have to give to receive. Such a simple point, and yet it’s so easy to forget that the giving of ourselves, without a price tag, has to come FIRST! It’s the giving that opens us up to grace and progress.


6. Being an online-only activist for good causes.


The internet was a lot younger when my grandma caught me debating people in an online bulletin board. And she reminded me right then that while online is fine, if you truly want to make a difference you have to walk the talk too. So don’t just rant online for a better world today. Love your family. Be a good neighbor. Practice kindness. Build bridges. Embody what you preach.


7. The pressures of making a big difference (all at once).


When we’re young it seems like faster is better, but in time we witness the power of “slow and steady” at work. We come to learn that no act of love, kindness or generosity, no matter how small, is ever wasted. The fact that you can plant a seed and it becomes a flower, share a bit of knowledge and it becomes another’s, smile at someone and receive a smile in return, is proof that YOU can make a big difference in life and business, even it can’t be done all at once.


8. Quick fixes.


The older your eyes grow, the more clearly they can see through the smoke and mirrors of every quick fix or short cut. Honestly, I used to believe that making wishes and saying prayers alone changed things, but now I know that wishes and prayers change us, and WE change things. It’s our daily dedication that paves the road of progress.


All details aside, when it comes to making a substantial change in your life — building a business, earning a degree, fostering a new relationship, starting a family, becoming more mindful, or any other personal journey that takes time and commitment — one thing you have to ask yourself is: “Am I willing to spend a little time every day like many people won’t, so I can spend the better part of my life like many people can’t?” Think about that for a moment. We ultimately become what we repeatedly do. The acquisition of knowledge doesn’t mean you’re growing — growing happens when what you know changes how you live on a daily basis. (Note: Our newest publication via Penguin Random House, “The Good Morning Journal: Powerful Prompts and Reflections to Start Every Day”, is a great tool for this kind of daily self-inquiry and self-reflection.)


9. Having a calendar jam-packed with plans.


Don’t jam your life with plans. Leave space. Over time you will learn that many great things happen unplanned, and some big regrets happen by not reaching exactly what was planned. So keep your life ordered and your schedule under-booked. Create a foundation with a soft place to land, a wide margin of error, and room to think and breathe every step of the way.


10. Being in constant control of everything.


The older we get the more we realize how little we actually control. And there’s no good reason to hold yourself down with things you can’t control. Learn to trust the journey, even when you do not understand it. Oftentimes what you never wanted or expected turns out to be what you need.


11. Blaming others.


Have you ever met a happy person who regularly evades responsibility, blames and points fingers and makes excuses for their unsatisfying life? Me neither. On the average day happy people accept responsibility for how their lives unfold. They believe their own happiness is a byproduct of their own thinking, beliefs, attitudes, character and behavior. And although it takes time to fully grasp this, it’s a lesson worth learning.


12. Obsessing yourself with the numbers.


They’ll try to measure your worth based on what you have, instead of who you are. But you know better than that — shiny objects and flashy figures don’t matter that much. Don’t just chase the money. Don’t just chase the numbers. Catch up to the ideas and activities that make you come alive. Go for the things of greater value — the things money can’t buy. What matters is having strength of character, an honest heart, and a sense of self-worth. (Note: Angel and I discuss this in more detail in the “Self-Love” and “Simplicity” chapters of “1,000 Little Things Happy, Successful People Do Differently”.)


13. The idea of saving certain people from themselves.


Some people will never understand, and it’s not your job to teach or change them. Prioritize your peace today. Seriously, you simply can’t save some people from themselves, so don’t get sucked too deep into their drama. Those who make perpetual chaos of their lives won’t appreciate you interfering with the commotion they’ve created anyway. They want your “poor baby” sympathy, but they don’t want to change, at least not yet — they aren’t ready. And again, it’s not your job to rush them.


14. The selfish and disparaging things others say and do.


If you take everything personally, you will inevitably be offended for the rest of your life, and that just isn’t worth it. At some point it becomes crystal clear that the way people treat you is their problem, and how you react is yours. Start taking full advantage of the amazing freedom that comes to you when you detach from other people’s opinions and antics.


15. Winning arguments.


Don’t define your intelligence or self-worth by the number of arguments you have won, but by the number of times you have confidently told yourself, “This nonsense is just not worth it!” Exit swiftly when you must, because not much is worth fighting about for long. And try not to regret the kindness and respect you have shown to the wrong people — your behavior says everything about you, and their behavior says more than enough about them. Carry on, with grace.


16. Judging others for their shortcomings.


We all have days when we’re not our best. And the older we grow, the more we realize how important it is to give others the break we hope the world will give us on our own bad days. Truly, you never know what someone has been through in their life, or what they’re going through today. Just be kind, generous and respectful… and then be on your way.


17. Society’s obsession with outer beauty.


As you grow older, what you look like on the outside becomes less and less of an issue, and who you are on the inside becomes the primary point of interest. You eventually realize that true beauty has almost nothing to do with looks — it’s who you are as a person, how you make others feel about themselves, and most importantly, how you feel about yourself.


18. Fancy and glamorous physical possessions.


Your personal wish list for big-ticket physical possessions tends to get smaller and smaller as you age into your sunset years, because the things you really want and need are the little things that can’t be bought.


19. Shallow relationships that just keep you busy.


It’s nice to have acquaintances, and it’s great to be friendly. But don’t get carried away and spread yourself too thin. Leave plenty of time for those who matter most. Your time is extremely limited, and sooner or later you just want to be around the few people who make you smile for all the right reasons.


20. Distant future possibilities.


As time passes, you naturally have more of it behind you and less of it in front of you. The distant future, then, gradually has less value to you personally. But that doesn’t really matter, because the good life always begins right now, when you stop waiting for a better one. Remember, some people wait all day for 5pm, all week for Friday, all year for the holidays, all their lives for happiness, and you don’t be one of them. Right now if LIFE! Don’t miss it.


Your turn…


Yes, it’s your turn to walk in my grandma’s footsteps — to live a life that moves and shakes and makes you laugh out loud. Because you don’t want to get to the end, or to tomorrow, even, and realize that your life is a collection of meetings and “somedays” and errands and receipts and empty promises… So count your blessings today, value the people and things that truly matter, and move on from the drama and distractions with your head held high.




Sometimes ONE TINY SHIFT from your

daily routine can set you on a completely

different trajectory for your life. You meet

someone who becomes a life long friend.

You see something you want to try that

becomes a new passion. Or maybe it's just 

that you feel more alive and decide you want

feel that more often, opening you up to even

more possibilities. Get outside your bubble.

Odds are you will. be glad you did .Have a Peaceful Safe Day Love and Blessings 














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