I am a m other of three daughters, and grandmother of seven grands sons and two granddaughters.They call me "Nana". Ilove listening to what people have to say and give my point of view on things.
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I enjoy being independent,however that does not mean that I don't enjoy receiving loving and tender care. I probably am of the few that really enjoy what I do at my job. I work as a Night Auditor for the pass three years in the hotel industry really enjoy the people that I meet. I have had m a ny jobs but have chosen hospitality industry as m y career. I m eet people from all over the world and enjoy sending them off to work in the m orning with a "Good m orning smile" and a bright "hello".
My Personality Type:
Idealist
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As an Idealist, my mission in life is to make the world a better place. I bring a unique combination of skills that make me a capable diplomat, advocate, and champion of those in need. I care about big ideas and big issues, but I am also dedicated to the lives of the people around me.
In many ways, I am the ideal friend or co-worker. I have great empathy skills. I give sound advice, but more importantly, I know when to just listen. At work, I am a natural leader, facilitator, and energizer. I have a gift for promoting harmony and cooperation at work. In fact, few things bother me more than conflicts at work.
My hopes and dreams are very important to me, so I take other people's dreams seriously, too. My friends and family know they can come to me for a booster shot of support and optimism, whether it's for pursuing their dream job or dream man or woman. Similarly, I can motivate teams and organizations to pursue more meaningful objectives.
Most people have goals and dreams, but I am more likely than most to actually achieve them. I have a clear idea of what I want in life. I anticipate and plan around obstacles, and I am a sharp problem solver. Plus, it's pretty darn hard to discourage me.
Idealists come in many varieties, from the academic to the applied. I have the capacity to balance both the ideas and the pragmatics. Only I know what I'll do with my many talents. Ultimately, whether I touch the world, my community, or simply my closest friends and familyâ€â€it's Idealists like me that give us all the inspiration to dream and strive for something more
My Love Style:
Romantic
I want and expect it allâ€â€a lasting connection with someone on every levelâ€â€mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual.
True Romantics like me are pretty rare. I have a good imagination, which allows me to visualize the type of man I could fall in love with. I can actually see and feel the future happiness the two of us would share. I also have the patience and persistence to search for him.
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When I finally meet him, the attraction can be instant and overwhelming. True Romantics believe in destiny, but I am also willing to give fate a push in the right direction. If necessary, I'll even make a total fool of myself to win him over. Romantics know that falling in love often means falling flat on your face.
Still, if the two of us can connect, we’ll have the capacity to experience the type of love most people only dream about. Specifically, my "style" of loving appears to have these common features:
Love means sharing your life completely with someone. His friends and family become your friends and family, and vice versa. Love requires sacrifice, and at times this means giving up parts of your own life so you can share a life together.
Like the song says, "If you want to know if he loves you so, it's in his kiss." You want passionate kisses and won't settle for anything less. The two of you will probably be instantly attracted to each other. You're not a purist who thinks love is a saintly connection between "friends." You have plenty of friends. You want a lover!
Both partners have to decide when they're ready to make a commitment and at what pace. Rushing into a commitment only adds to the pressure of forming a relationship. The two of you have to find the type and level of commitment that makes sense given your feelings and how long you've been together
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My Biggest Challenge Is:
How can you promote harmony and still allow healthy conflict?
Idealists go out of their way to promote harmony at work, in their families, and among their friends. I am a natural peacemaker and take it upon myself to mediate disputes. And whenever possible, I try to prevent them. On more than one occasion, I've probably asked: "Why can't we all just get along?!"
Yet conflict doesn't have to be destructiveâ€â€there is such a thing as healthy conflict. Even heated exchanges can be useful as long as both of you play fair.
Part of my challenge is learning to tolerate uncertainty and being disliked. As a creative person, I know that some of my best ideas come after long periods of frustration and feeling "blocked." I may find that some of my relationships are blocked as well, and require "creative conflict" to move forward.
Asking an Idealist and peacemaker to have more conflicts is admittedly ambitious. Still, one of my strengths is that I am always open to new ideas and trying new things. In that spirit, here are some other areas I might want to improve:
I have a workaholic streak. I am constantly taking on new projects at work and home. It's hard for me to say "No." Yet, I have to break the cycle of creating more and more ambitious ways of winning everyone's praise and proving my own worth. Agree?
I can be a perfectionist. I set extremely high standards for myself and others. Yet I consistently undervalue what I accomplish. Nothing I ever do is quite "good enough." I have to resist the temptation to focus on details, especially if I lose sight of the big picture by sweating the small stuff. Agree?
I am a people pleaser. I can be so focused on keeping other people happy that I forget to take care of my own needs. It sounds cliché, but the only one that can satisfy my need for approval is myself. I need to try setting aside some time every day to think about what I've done and be proud of the little things I do that people can't or won't appreciate.
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