UNFORTUNATELY, AT 89, MOM HAS BECOME A PROBLEM. I PUT IN 90 MINUTES COOKING WHICH SHE IS INCAPABLE AT THIS POINT, YET COMES IN THE KITCHEN, AND SHE BECOME THE RICE QUEEN ON COOKING...AND I TOLD HER, I'M NOT ADDICTED TO MEN, I AM DOING THIS, SHE NEVER FLINCHED. THIS HAS BEEN A 3 WEEK LONG HIATUS FROM BEING HERE. WITH MOM,