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About me:
Myers-Briggs says I'm an INFJ, which I find to be an accurate assessment of my personality. Here's what they would tell you about me: Portrait of an INFJ - Introverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging (Introverted Intuition with Extraverted Feeling) ----------------------------------------------------------- INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types. INFJs operate within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous. They know things intuitively, without being able to pinpoint why, and without detailed knowledge of the subject at hand. They are usually right, and they usually know it. Consequently, INFJs put a tremendous amount of faith into their instincts and intuitions. This is something of a conflict between the inner and outer worlds, and may result in the INFJ not being as organized as other Judging types tend to be. Or we may see some signs of disarray in an otherwise orderly tendency, such as a consistently messy desk. INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them. This is the sort of thing that other types may scorn and scoff at, and the INFJ themself does not really understand their intuition at a level which can be verbalized. Consequently, most INFJs are protective of their inner selves, sharing only what they choose to share when they choose to share it. They are deep, complex individuals, who are quite private and typically difficult to understand. INFJs hold back part of themselves, and can be secretive. But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Because the INFJ has such strong intuitive capabilities, they trust their own instincts above all else. They believe that they're right. On the other hand, INFJ is a perfectionist who doubts that they are living up to their full potential. They believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to revel in their accomplishments. They have strong value systems, and need to live their lives in accordance with what they feel is right. INFJs are in some ways gentle and easy going. Conversely, they have very high expectations of themselves. INFJ is a natural nurturer; patient, devoted and protective.The INFJ individual is gifted in ways that other types are not. Life is not necessarily easy for the INFJ, but they are capable of great depth of feeling and personal achievement. ----------------------------------------------------------- INFJ Relationships ----------------------------------------------------------- INFJs are warm and affirming people who are usually also deep and complex. They're likely to seek out and promote relationships that are intense and meaningful. In general, the INFJ is a deeply warm and caring person who is highly invested in the health of their close relationships, and puts forth a lot of effort to make them positive. They are valued by those close to them for these special qualities. ----------------------------------------------------------- INFJ Strengths ----------------------------------------------------------- Warm and affirming by nature. Dedicated to achieving the ultimate relationship. Sensitive and concerned for others' feelings. Usually have good communication skills, especially written. Take their commitments very seriously, and seek lifelong relationships. Have very high expectations for themselves and others (both a strength and weakness). Good listeners. Are able to move on after a relationship has ended (once they're sure it's over). ----------------------------------------------------------- INFJ Weaknesses ----------------------------------------------------------- Tendency to hold back part of themselves. Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism . Have very high expectations for themselves and others (both a strength and weakness). Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship . ---------------------------------------------------------- INFJs as Lovers ----------------------------------------------------------- INFJs are warm, considerate partners who feel great depth of love for their partners. They enjoy showing this love, and want to receive affirmation back from their mates. Sexually, INFJs view intimacy as a nearly spiritual experience. They embrace the opportunity to bond heart and soul with their mates. As service-oriented individuals, it's very important to them that their mates are happy. Intimacy is an opportunity for the INFJ to selflessly give their love, and experience it in a tangible way.
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