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71 years old
Somewhere in L. A., Alabama
United States
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MEMBER SINCE: 10/02/2006
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LAST LOGIN: 10/02/2017 12:58:48


Any and all types EXCEPT rap and twangy old country music

Forget Perfect - Lisa Earle McLeod
Left to Tell - Immaculee Ilibagiza
Thresholds of the Mind - Bill Harris

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I enjoy being with family and friends, Family is very important to me.

Age, I decided, is a gift. I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have always wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometimes despair over my body... the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt.

And often I am taken aback by that old person that
lives in my mirror, but I don't agonize over those things for long. I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become more kind to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.

I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avant-garde on my patio. I am entitled to overeat, to be messy, to be extravagant.

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.

Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 a.m. and sleep until noon?

I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love... I will.

I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a slightly bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the bikini set.

They, too, will get old. I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten, and I eventually remember the important things.

Sure, over the years, my heart has been broken.
How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when a beloved pet gets hit by a car?

But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect. I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turn gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.

So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver. I can say "no", and mean it. I can say "yes", and mean it.

As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.

So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become.

I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be, but will continue to rejoice in what was.

I love dancing, boating, nature walks, a fire in the fireplace or outdoors in a firepit, the stars on a cloudless night in Montana, the mountains, diamonds ;-). One of the grandest things in life is a huge unsolisited hug from a grandchild!

ahh...yes, I am truely a lover of life and all it has to offer.

Brown Eyes, Rightous Brothers Music, a great smile, sincerity, truthfulness, thoughtfulness, a sense of self and self-worth, unexpected hugs, and sweet kisses, a great sense of humor, the ability to laugh at one's self...to be continued

egotism, control-freaks, liars, cheats, braggarts, wimpy men, men who won't attempt to enjoy dancing, racism, busy-bodies ...to be continued

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