It's not selfish. It's not rude. It's imperative. You are allowed
to determine who gets access to
you. You are allowed to want
people in your life who make
you feel light and supported.
You can set that standard. It's
your life. Don't forget that.
The Tale of the Pencil
The Tale of the Pencil is a metaphorical story that emphasizes the idea that everyone has unique strengths and weaknesses that can be used to create something beautiful and meaningful.
In the story, a pencil maker tells the pencil five important lessons as it goes through life.
First, the pencil maker says that everything that happens to the pencil is part of its sharpening process.
Second, the pencil maker reminds the pencil that it can always correct its mistakes.
Third, the pencil maker tells the pencil that what’s inside it – the lead – is what’s most important.
Fourth, the pencil maker says that the pencil will be useful only if it allows itself to be held and guided by the hand that holds it.
Finally, the pencil maker reminds the pencil that eventually it will be left behind, but the marks it leaves behind will make a difference.
The story is often used as a metaphor for personal growth and the idea that everyone has unique strengths and weaknesses that can be used to create something meaningful.
It emphasizes that we should accept ourselves for who we are, learn from our mistakes, focus on what’s most important, be guided by others, and make our mark on the world in a positive way.
