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"It is better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for someone you are not."

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Memoirs of a Geisha, I am Legend, The Color Purple, The Pursuit of Happyness, Spitfire Grill, Fried Green Tomatoes, Fearless, The Curse of the Golden Flower, Forrrest Gump, The Green Mile, Patch Adams, Dead Poet Society, Tea with Mussolini, The Perfect Storm, All 3 pirates of the Caribbean, Sarafina, Beloved, The Reaping, Primeval, The Lord of the Rings triology , The Hobbit I and II and so many more

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Ill Nino, Sevendust, Killswitch Engage, Trapt, Alter Bridge, Soilwork, Sonic Syndicate, Soil, Atreyu, Secret Garden and so very much more.


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Carson McCullers, Harper Lee, Khaled Hosseini, Isabel Allende, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Robert Jordan, Tolkien, Ann Pratchet, Stuart Harrisson, Jean M. Auel, Kathleen Grissom, Annie Proulx, Tonke Dragt, Thea Beckman, Marianna Frederickson and so many others

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nature, animals, children, making longs walks, blowing bubbles, hiking, cycling, reading, photography, healing herbs and plants, healing stones and crystals, Bach therapy, energy healing, gardening, enjoying God's beautiful creation, watching the moon and stars, laughing

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It is better to light candles than to curse the darkness. It is better to plant seeds than to accuse the earth. The world needs all of our power and love and energy, and each of us has something that we can give. The trick is to find it and use it, to find it and give it away. So there will always be more. We can be lights for each other, and through each other's illumination we will see the way. Each of us is a seed, a silent promise, and it is always spring.

~Merle Shain

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We don't love others when we find them beautiful, we find others beautiful when we love them.

~Josei Toda

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If you're really listening If you're awake to the poignant beauty of the world, your heart breaks regularly. In fact, your heart is made to break, it's purpose is to burst open again and again so that it can hold evermore wonder.

~Andrew Harvey

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Once you have started seeing the beauty of life, ugliness starts disappearing. If you start looking at life with joy, sadness starts disappearing. You cannot have heaven and hell together, you can have only one. It is your choice.


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Even after all this time, the sun never says to the earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that. It lights the whole sky.


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Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.

~Marcel Proust

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The four hardest tasks on earth are neither physical nor intellectual feats, but spiritual ones: To return love for hate; to include the excluded; to forgive without apology, and to be able to say 'I was wrong.'

~ Author Unknown

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The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile...it's the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him with his friendship.

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.

~ Martin Luther King Jr

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I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise, since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patience, love, openness, and a willingness to remain vulnerable.

~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh

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Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.

~Anais Nin

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I wonder whether the stars are set alight in heaven so that one day each one of us may find his own again....the stars, the desert -- what gives them their beauty is something that is invisible....It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.

~Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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My name is Aysha and I am the mother of four children, two girls, Inçi and Naomi and two boys, Mick and Jaymie.

I love life and everything it brings and even though life can bring pain and sadness, I have had my share of that also, I always find things that make my life more than worthwhile and everyday again I find things that make me happy and that put a smile on my face.

I’m just a simple person and I enjoy the simple things in life the most, like a beautiful sunrise or sunset coloring the sky in the most beautiful shades of purple and orange, the beautiful colors of the rainbow, the moon rising in the starlit sky, the singing of the birds, the mysterious whispers of the wind through the leaves telling the secrets and stories of ancient times, the wonderful fragrances of all the blossoms in spring, the dewdrops on a spiders web glistening like little crystals when touched by the early morning sun, and early morning swim in the lake in summer, the changing of the seasons with each season having its own charm and miracles and I can go on like this forever.
To me every day is a precious gift and every new day brings new possibilities and new miracles.

I am looking for a couple of honest and sincere friends to stay in touch with through comments and messages. I do not like to be a number on a big friends list and I am not looking for love or a relationship since I am very happy with the way things are.

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Kindness, a friendly smile, honesty, respect, caring, laughing and playing children, love of animals, love of nature, animals, the beauty of nature and all its miracles

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Cruelty to animals and or children, rudeness, liars, people who feel themselves better than others, people who don’t care about others, unfriendliness

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Whatever our hands touch - We leave fingerprints! On walls, on furniture On doorknobs, dishes, books. There's no escape. As we touch we leave our identity.
Wherever I go today Help me leave heart prints! Heart prints of compassion Of understanding and love.
Heart prints of kindness And genuine concern. May my heart touch a lonely neighbor Or a runaway daughter Or an anxious mother Or perhaps an aged grandfather.
Send me out today To leave heart prints. And if someone should say, "I felt your touch," May they also sense the love that is deep within my heart.

~Author Unknown

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The majority of us lead quiet, unheralded lives as we pass through this world. There will most likely be no ticker-tape parades for us, no monuments created in our honor. But that does not lessen our possible impact, for there are scores of people waiting for someone just like us to come along; people who will appreciate our compassion, our unique talents. Someone who will live a happier life merely because we took the time to share what we had to give. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have a potential to turn a life around. It's overwhelming to consider the continuous opportunities there are to make our love felt.

~Leo Buscaglia

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People are unreasonable, illogical and self-centered. Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest person with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest person with the smallest mind. Think big anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack if you help them. Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you might get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you've got anyway.

~Dr. Kent M. Keith

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When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.

~Henri Nouwen

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Is it possible for the rose to say, 'I will give my fragrance to the good people who smell me, but I will withhold it from the bad?' Or is it possible for the lamp to say, 'I will give my light to the good people in this room, but I will withhold it from the evil people'? Or can a tree say, 'I'll give my shade to the good people who rest under me, but I will withhold it from the bad'? These are images of what love is about.

~Anthony De Mello

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I will greet this day with love in my heart. And how will I do this? Henceforth will I look on all things with love and be born again. I will love the sun for it warms my bones; yet I will love the rain for it cleanses my spirit. I will love the light for it shows me the way; yet I will love the darkness for it shows me the stars. I will welcome happiness as it enlarges my heart; yet I will endure sadness for it opens my soul. I will acknowledge rewards for they are my due; yet I will welcome obstacles for they are my challenge.

~Og Mandino

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And while it takes courage to achieve greatness, it takes more courage to find fulfillment in being ordinary. For the joys that last have little relationship to achievement, to standing one step higher on the victory platform. What is the adventure in being ordinary? It is daring to love just for the pleasure of giving it away. It is venturing to give new life and to nurture it to maturity. It is working hard for the pure joy of being tired at the end of the day. It is caring and sharing and giving and loving…

~ Marilyn Thomsen

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Love all of God's creation, the whole of it and every grain of sand. Love every leaf, every ray of God's light! Love the animals, love the plants, love everything. If you love everything, you will soon perceive the divine mystery in things. Once you perceive it, you will begin to comprehend it better every day. And you will come at last to love the whole world with an all-embracing love.

~ Fyodor Dostoevsky

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